By Melissa Robinson
Contributing Editor
Dancing, karaoke and plenty
of presents made the “Kindness Works Christmas Party,” held for the
special needs community, a huge hit last Saturday. Nearly a hundred
invited guests, along with their siblings and volunteers turned out
for the celebration where partiers did the Cupid Shuffle, sang
Christmas carols, ate, drank and made merry at the McDonough
Christian Church on Jonesboro Road.
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Organizer Dana Fessler, guest
Aleshia McCartney and volunteer buddy Ashleigh Krilla,
having a great time at the Kindness Works Christmas Party.
Photo by Melissa Robinson |
This is the 10th year for the
Kindness Works Christmas Party, where churches, civic groups and
other volunteers come together to offer not only a fun and festive
party for those in the special needs community, but a welcome
respite for parents and caregivers, delicious food and drink and
even a visit from old St. Nick himself. The party was at no cost to
parents and each guest, ranging in age from five to adult, left with
a giant shopping bag of goodies and gifts to make the season bright.
Guests also enjoyed arts and crafts, bounce houses and most
importantly, fellowship with old and new friends. Each guest was
paired up with a volunteer buddy to assist them, assuring a safe,
positive and fun experience.
According to Debbie Withers,
one of the event’s organizers, the Christmas party was started a
decade ago by a Girl Scout troop, led by troop leader Dana Fessler,
for their service project. They had five participants that year.
“Dana and her daughter’s Girl
Scout troop began this party and it has just grown so much since the
very beginning,” said Withers. “This has grown throughout the years
and we have double the number of guests from last year.”
Fessler said although it’s
not Girl Scout related anymore, it has continued to grow and be
successful because of the community support behind it. She credits
hundreds of volunteers, including members of the Rotary Club, the
Lions Club, the Boy Scouts troops 11 and 99, the McDonough Junior
Women’s Club and many more.
“There are really a couple
of hundred people who make this work,” she said.
She also credits Cindy
Carter, who began the Sunshine League for special needs athletes,
and Kit Welch, who is responsible for Kindness Works Week, for
helping to grow and support the event.
She said not only is the
party great for the participants, but it gives their families a
chance to go off and get some time for themselves, while knowing
that their children are well taken care of and safe.
“A few parents stay,
especially if it’s the first year for their child, but they just
can’t say enough. They are just so appreciative. When you have a
special needs child, you have such little time to yourself, just to
shop or run errands. The parents look forward to it and the kids
look forward to it all year,” said Fessler.
Parent Kathy Toreno said her
daughter Katie has been coming to the party since the very
beginning- and it’s something they wait for all year.
“She started talking about it
a week before, and every year it’s become bigger and bigger. I got
so much done today and didn’t have to worry about her. It just means
a lot to us. We love it,” she said.
Katie, who was busy for much
of the day dancing and socializing, topped off the party by singing
Jingle Bells during karaoke.
“This is the best Christmas
party ever,” said Katie.
Toreno said what really
impresses her are the young volunteers who give up their time to
make this a special day for her daughter and the other guests.
“Every year it just gets
better and better, but it’s these young kids who give up their
Saturday and volunteer, it just melts my heart,” she said. “And they
have so much fun and cannot wait to be with our kids.”
Makayla Winters, a seventeen
year-old junior from Ola High School in McDonough said she
volunteers because it’s so much fun.
“I volunteer a lot but this
is my first time volunteering here. I found out about it because we
have a lady who prays with us at cheerleading and she asked if I
wanted to do it. I had a great time,” said Winters. “I love seeing
the smiles on the kids’ faces.”
Withers said that the event
is free and made possible by the donations they receive.
Although neither Fessler of
Withers have a special needs child, they love being a part of the
Christmas party and say they get more out of it than they give.
“I get emotional talking about
it. It’s very gratifying,” said Fessler, who is a member of
McDonough Christian Church, which has a special needs ministry.
“It’s so much fun for us and it’s so uplifting
to be a part of this great celebration,” said Withers.